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MENDING THE NET Book Signing, Jan’s Paperbacks, May 9th, 1-4 pm

Jan’s Paperbacks is a new and used book store located at: 18095 SW Tualatin Valley Highway, Aloha, OR 97006. Please come visit me and talk about questions you have for healing the Self of old family dysfunctions and how to become the light soul that you are!

Mending the Net walks you through many exercises on the path of healing so that you can transmute your trauma and hurt and move forward to create a loving family. With new awareness you create a new paradigm that breaks the old and unhealthy patterns from your past and ancestor lineage. Learn to recognize and break the old pattern of being parentized. Release old negative emotions through writing and experiential exercises. Re-dream your future. New awareness brings in new emotions. This is transmutation.

Healing Forward

oregon-coast_1152x864_27616This is a generational family healing site. It is a place to examine where we have come from, so that we can keep the best and let go of the rest. That’s called ‘high grading’ in the lumber mills. “Cut the best, leave the rest”. Keep the best attributes from your generational legacy and return to your past generations whatever you do not want to carry forward.

You are a beacon of light at the nexus point between your ancestors of the past and your lineage in the future. As you stand in your place, healed, brightly lit, you can look back and see behind you one line that emanates from your shoulder that is your mother’s line and one line from the other shoulder which is your father’s line. If you look in front of you, you see your children, your grandchildren, your great-grandchildren. When you heal yourself, you send healing back to your ancestors and you send healing forward to the future generations. Your light illuminates the lines behind you and the lines in front of you and turns the Earth into a beacon of lights.

This website is about healing Self; we who are at the nexus point between 7 generations behind us and 7 generations in front of us. When we heal ourselves, we pass down to future generations; health, love, joy and light. When we heal ourselves, we are healing forward for the next generations, and we are healing past on our ancestor line.  When we heal ourselves, we alter the pain, sadness, misery, anger and angst that we have received from our lineage. When we heal ourselves, we are gifting our Self, we are gifting our children, and we are gifting our past.

Different inter-generational topics will be reviewed. There will be suggestions of new methods to effect emotional, mental, and psychological healing.  This is a gathering of new ideas that you can use as you go forward to transform your energies for healing yourself and your family.   Among the Native American traditions, the Great Law of the Iroquois states that “in every deliberation, we must consider the impact on the seventh generation…” This belief states that decisions and actions that we make today ripple forward and affect those who will be living in the future.

Many of us have addiction, abandonment, rigidity, sternness, and anger or abuse in our lineage.  These pains have been passed down to us from our parents. But we do not need to send these pains to our children. As we step to the front line of our ancestry, we can have the goal to not pass down these hurts, but to only pass down the true clear essence of goodness from our parents and grandparents and great grandparents. We all have to separate the wheat from the chaff, letting the chaff fall to the ground and keeping the kernels of the authentic emotions of grace, kindness and love.  By looking at our own foibles and coming clean, we can walk the road of authenticity, transform our pain and grief, and break the patterns from our childhoods.  We can alter patterns that we do not wish to transfer to our children. We can release the past pain from previous generations, shift our beliefs or damaging judgments, and label unresolved issues so that we can transform the energy of our lineage.

We are healing ourselves forward so that our children will not have to carry our old burdens. Good luck and much fortitude for your journey!